Synopsis
Parenting strategies you can be proud of
You know the feeling. You got frustrated, desperate, or overwhelmed and you reacted before you could think it through. Whether it's a one-time thing or it becomes a habit, we all parent in ways we don't like. But it doesn't have to continue. Whether it's bribery, yelling, counting to three, or threats of punishment you didn't mean to make, reacting never feels good. But if you can learn to act with intentionality, you'll feel better about your choices and be grateful for the results.
Dr. Kathy Koch (pronounced "cook"), author of Screens and Teens and 8 Great Smarts, will teach you proven strategies for training your child's heart and parenting in a way that honors God. She'll help you move your child from, "I can't, I won't," to "I can, I will, and I did." We can do better than "Because I said so." or "No screen time for 3 days." We can do better than mere behavior modification. We can change our children's hearts and teach them to do what is good, godly, and right even when we're not around. Once you've learned to put these motivation strategies in place there's no more need to nag, you'll be astounded at what your kids will do without being asked. Dr. Kathy doesn't offer a quick-fix. Starting with the heart is all about changing what children believe in order to change their behavior. And learning to use this kind of motivation takes effort, consistency, and strategy, but it works. And it's never too late! If you're willing to commit to a little hard work up front, you'll enjoy your kids, your life, and yourself much more when you learn to start with the heart.
Review
Do you need a breakthrough?
Are you stuck fighting the same battles with kids who seem totally unmotivated to change?
The truth is, every child is motivated, you just need to learn how to unlock your child's unique heart.
In Start with the Heart, you'll learn practical, manageable strategies for motivating your kids toward healthy life habits, including how to:
>> Address beliefs that affect behavior
>> Respond to consistent complaining
>> Increase resiliency and decrease fear of hard work
>> Listen longer and teach your kids to know themselves
>> Create change that lasts long-term
Plus, Dr. Koch will teach you what really irritates kids (they've told her), and how to identify and avoid actions that break down trust. Move your kids from "I Can't" to "I Can, I Will, I Did."
In this wise and insightful volume, Dr. Kathy Koch has reminded parents how important it is to build our parenting on a foundation of solid, loving bonds with our kids.
Jim Daly, President - Focus on the Family
DR. KATHY KOCH is the Founder and President of Celebrate Kids, Inc., a Christian ministry based in Fort Worth, Texas. She is an internationally celebrated speaker who has influenced thousands of parents, teachers, and children in over 25 countries through keynote messages, workshops, seminars, assemblies, and other events. She also blogs regularly at www.DrKathyKoch.com.Dr. Kathy coauthored with Jill Savage, No More Perfect Kids: Love Your Kids For Who They Are, helps parents understand why they must get to know their children to parent them wisely. 8 Great Smarts: Discover and Nurture Your Child's Intelligences helps parents understand their children's learning strengths. Finding Authentic Hope and Wholeness: 5 Questions That Will Change Your Life provides a solution-focused, enriching approach to real problems. Screens and Teens: Connecting with Our Kids in a Wireless World, helps parents make sense and respond to screen time that is rapidly replacing family time, especially among teens.Dr. Kathy earned a Ph.D. in reading and educational psychology from Purdue University. She was a tenured associate professor of education at the University of Wisconsin-Green Bay, a teacher of second graders, a middle school coach, and a school board member prior to becoming a full-time conference and keynote speaker in 1991.
Start with the Heart
Parenting strategies you can be proud of You know the feeling. You got frustrated, desperate, or overwhelmed and you reacted before you could think it through. Whether it’s a one-time thing or it becomes a habit, we all parent in ways we don’t like. But it doesn’t have to continue. Whether it’s bribery, yelling, counting to three, or threats of punishment you didn’t mean to make, reacting never feels good. But if you can learn to act with intentionality, you’ll feel better about your choices and be grateful for the results. Dr. Kathy Koch (pronounced “cook”), author of Screens and Teens and 8 Great Smarts, will teach you proven strategies for training your child’s heart and parenting in a way that honors God. She’ll help you move your child from, “I can’t, I won’t," to “I can, I will, and I did.” We can do better than “Because I said so.” or “No screen time for 3 days.” We can do better than mere behavior modification. We can change our children’s hearts and teach them to do what is good, godly, and right even when we’re not around. Once you’ve learned to put these motivation strategies in place there’s no more need to nag, you’ll be astounded at what your kids will do without being asked. Dr. Kathy doesn’t offer a quick-fix. Starting with the heart is all about changing what children believe in order to change their behavior. And learning to use this kind of motivation takes effort, consistency, and strategy, but it works. And it’s never too late! If you’re willing to commit to a little hard work up front, you’ll enjoy your kids, your life, and yourself much more when you learn to start with the heart.
In Start with the Heart, you’ll learn practical, manageable strategies for motivating your kids toward healthy life habits, including how to: Address beliefs that affect behavior Respond to consistent complaining Increase resiliency and ..."
Resilient Kids
Children need to believe their future is bright. The more disappointments they don’t recover well from, the less likely they are to dream. When they do not process challenging experiences well it can lead to defeat, rather than encourage them to grow and mature. Far too many children don’t grasp their strengths and, as a result do not believe they can overcome negative encounters. Apathy sets in. Discouragement persists. Arguments rage. Mental health suffers. Children need to be resilient and when they develop this ability and make wise choices it becomes part of their character. Furthermore, they need parents who help them to learn from negative experiences and who allow them a certain measure of struggle. In Resilient Kids moms and dads will learn the power and purpose of resilience and how to parent so as to make it more likely their children will utilize this character quality.
Esther is an amazing young woman, and her story is one of remarkable courage and God's sovereignty. ... Kathy Koch, Start with the Heart : How to Motivate Your Kids to Be Compassionate , Responsible , and Brave ( Even When You 're Not ..."
Five to Thrive
Answering 5 Questions Can Change Your Life. Who can I trust? Who am I? Who wants me? Why am I alive? What do I do well? Every human has five core needs, and if you're going to thrive, these needs must be met in healthy ways—primarily through God. Learn what they are and how you can develop beliefs and skills so they're met and you become whole, content, and at peace. Start thriving as you use the ideas in this revised and updated edition of Finding Authentic Hope and Wholeness. With humor and vulnerability Dr. Kathy Koch gives you the tools to develop an authentic sense of self and a positive outlook on the future.Take the time to ask yourself these five questions, and discover the answers as you journey with Dr. Kathy toward hope and wholeness. You'll be glad you did—for the rest of your life.
Kathy Koch, Start with the Heart : How to Motivate Your Kids to Be Compassionate , Responsible , and Brave ( Even When You 're Not Around) (Chicago: Moody, 2019), 205–34, 265–71. Complimenting and correcting children and adults are powerful ..."
Raising Sons of Promise
As a single mother, you might find yourself in the difficult position of raising sons alone, wounded by the broken promises of your child's father. But God offers a greater promise to you and your family. Roland Warren, himself the child of a single mother, invites you on a journey to heal your heart and parent your boys to become healthy men, good husbands, and strong fathers.
Dr. Kathy Koch, author of a fantastic book, Start with the Heart : How to Motivate Your Kids to Be Compassionate , Responsible , and Brave ( Even When You 're Not Around), explains how these core needs are just part of how God created us."
心引力
★ 美國亞馬遜５顆星滿分好評！ 從關係著手，以簡單實用的策略，轉動孩子和你的心！ 從與孩子建立信賴出發，作者帶領讀者認識生命中重要的品格特質，使行為的改變得以真實長久；接著引導父母看見孩子行為背後潛藏的核心需求，教導父母如何在適當時機扮演正確角色，成為孩子堅實的靠山；而具體的傾聽、溝通、稱讚與糾正策略，能快速應用於日常生活中。這是一本實用的教育指南，不只讓你教養孩子，也讓你看見上帝如何教養你。 當你先變好，孩子就更有機會變好。一起從心開始吧！ 真誠推薦 「當你向凱西．庫克博士學習如何引導、安慰和鼓勵孩子時，我希望你能將重點放在探索孩子內心，這是唯一能產生真實且長遠影響的途徑。希望你能像我一樣，從凱西每一章結尾提供的提問和實踐中，受到鼓舞。」──柯克．卡梅隆（Kirk Cameron），美國知名演員
Start with the Heart How to Motivate Your Kids to Be Compassionate , Responsible , and Brave ( Even When You 're Not Around )心引力從「心」教養,讓親子關係從對立走向並肩孩子會變好,你也是 CO .凱西·庫克著蘇心美譯 Table of Contents 敬獻各界 ..."
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The Name of the Rose
Ketenangan Biara Benediktin pecah. Serangkaian kematian misterius membuat para rahib dijalari kengerian. William Baskerville, seorang mantan inkuisitor Fransiskan, dipanggil untuk mengusutnya. Waktunya hanya tujuh hari sebelum pertemuan kelompok Fransiskan dan kelompok Paus yang berkonflik besar diadakan di biara itu. Di tengah pencarian dalang pembunuhan, ada perang antara iman dan logika. William yang seorang rasionalis harus berhadapan dengan keimanan yang kadang membabi buta. Sampai akhirnya, William sadar bahwa ternyata keingintahuan bisa membahayakan. Bahkan, pertanyaan yang dianggap menyerang keimanan bisa membawa seseorang berhadapan dengan kematian. The Name of the Rose, novel yang terjual lebih dari lima puluh juta eksemplar di seluruh dunia ini dengan apik memadukan "kutipan" dan fiksi, sejarah dan kisah, serta imajinasi dan semiotika. Dengan sangat cerdas, Eco menghadirkan kehidupan biara yang puritan lengkap dengan tradisi pemikiran gereja Abad Pertengahan.\\ [Mizan, Bentang Pustaka, Novel, Terjemahan, Fiksi, Indonesia]
The Name of the Rose, novel yang terjual lebih dari lima puluh juta eksemplar di seluruh dunia ini dengan apik memadukan "kutipan" dan fiksi, sejarah dan kisah, serta imajinasi dan semiotika."
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